Jerusalem and Sufganiyot
This week on the podcast we’re talking about Jerusalem (the exhibit at the Met, and the City), and sufganiyot.
Further reading
Jerusalem
Jerusalem: 1000-1400 Every People Under Heaven at the Metropolitan Museum of Art, the audio guide
Christian Monks Square Off at One of Jerusalem’s Holiest Sites by Nina Strochlic at The Daily Beast
Armenian and Greek Monks Fight in Jerusalem (video from MSNBC)
Maccabeats sing Im Eshkachech at Batsheva and Jeff’s wedding
Visit the Mifletzet
Zahava recommends spending Tisha B’Av in Jerusalem
Sufganiyot
Zahava made Apple Cider Sufganiyot (Hanukkah Doughnuts) with salted caramel filling from Chowhound but she filled them with apple butter
Mimi made Easiest. Sufganiyot. Ever. from mynameisyeh, but she baked the dough after frying it.
Tamar made Leah Koenig’s Cardamom Glazed Doughnut Bites from Williams Sonoma, and Blueberry Cream Cheese Doughnuts from mynameisyeh, but I made my own filling which was soom, butter, and pwodered sugar. Super delicious.
Zahava suggests sufganiot.com.
Everything You Know About Latkes in Wrong by Yoni Appelbaum in the Atlantic
8 Days (of Hanukkah) by Sharon Jones and the Dap Kings in which a Hanukkah brisket
These Cranberry Curd Nutmeg Donuts are probably delicious but we haven’t tried them.
Zahava mocked this challah recipe that was inexplicably presented by the New York Times as a Hanukkah recipe.
Endorsements
Zahava recommends the Jewish Federation of Cleveland opposing Ohio’s fetal heartbeat bill, and When Politics and Halacha Meet: The Challenge of Abortion by Zachary Truboff in the Times of Israel.
Mimi recommends Jergens Hydrating Coconut Lotion, and The Principals of Uncertainty by Maira Kalman.
Tamar recommends the cookbook Aromas of Aleppo by Poopa Dweck.
Rabbis and Rebbetzins
This week on the podcast we’re talking about what it’s like to be a female rabbi, and what it’s like to be a rebbetzin. For our first segment we have a guest, Rabbi Aviva, who is the rabbi of a Conservative congregation on the East Coast. For our second segment we have Beth, who was a rebbetzin for 8 years in Chicago.
Further reading
Rabbis
Rabbis in the United States from the Jewish Women’s Archive
Rebbetzins
Annual Rebbetzins Conference put on by the Orthodox Union
The Rebbetzin in American Jewish Life by Shuly Schwartz
Endorsements
Zahava recommends George Washington’s letter to Touro Synagogue in Newport Rhode Island.
Mimi endorses a Spicy Quinoa Salad With Broccoli, Cilantro and Lime which is great for Jewish potlucks, and is excellent comfort food.
Tamar recommends the poetry of Jeanne Lohmann, especially the poem Praise What Comes, and Amit’s rules for talking in shul.
Saying Yizkor, and Being a Single Jewish Lady Looking for Love
This week on the podcast we’re talking about Yizkor, the memorial prayer that’s said on Yom Kippur, and about what it’s really like to be a single Jewish woman looking for a partner. For the second segment we’ll be joined by Deena, a single Jewish woman in New York who will give us some real talk.
Further reading
Yizkor
Alternative Yizkor Prayers To Say For Abusive Parents at MyJewishLearning.com
Not the “Shidduch Crisis”
The Shidduch Crisis Blame Game by Josh Yuter in the Forward
Endorsements
Mimi is thinking about Jewish garb, and the signals that they send. She is also thinking about kittels and heteronormativity.
Zahava recommends When God is Near: On the High Holidays by Rabbi Yehuda Amital, and the TV show It Takes a Church, a matchmaking show for single women in their church.
Tamar recommends the Spotify playlists Songs for Elul, Love and Longing I, and Love and Longing II, curated by Rabbi Yosef Goldman, and the poem Try to Praise the Mutilated World by Adam Zagajewski.
Kaddish: The Podcast, and Indignation
This week on the podcast we’re talking about the new podcast Kaddish: The Podcast, and for that segment we’ll be joined by creator and producer Ariana Katz, and for our second segment we’ll be talking about the new movie Indignation.
Further reading
Kaddish: The Podcast
Kaddish:The Podcast in iTunes
Indignation
Indignation trailer
Review of the book Indigation in the New York Times (spoilers)
Review in the New Yorker
Endorsements
Ariana recommends the August 12th Black Lives Matter action by JFREJ. Listen to the treyf podcast version.
Mimi recommends the The New Jewish Wedding by Anita Diamant and asks for suggestions of good things to read and listen to about making a Jewish wedding. She also recommends Debbie Friedman’s Mourner’s Kaddish.
Zahava recommends By the Arch of Titus: Spending Tisha B’Av in Rome by Jake Marmer in Tablet.
Tamar recommends visiting your local criminal court in preparation for Rosh Hashanah.
Soon By You, and Jewish Responses to Policing
This week on the podcast we’re talking about the new webseries about Orthodox dating, Soon By You, and for that segment we’ll be joined by creator and actress Leah Gottfried, and for our second segment we’ll be talking about the Jewish take on policing with Rabbi Jill Jacobs, executive director of T’ruah.
Further reading
Soon By You
Soon By You Youtube channel
‘Soon By You’ Depicts the Trials and Tribulations of Modern Orthodox Dating by Sara Trappler Spielman in Tablet
Soon By You on Facebook
Dating Chatter With the Cast of Soon By You from the Forward
Jewish Views on Policing
T’ruah sources on Policing
A six page text study on policing in Jewish law by Rabbi Jill Jacobs
Endorsements
Zahava recommends The Kramer Family Song Booklet, available for purchase used.
Mimi recommends the Pocket Torah app for helping to learn your leyning.
Tamar recommends her own advice tumblr, What Does T Fox Say, and the dating web series Seeking, particularly episode 3, which is based on a terrible/hilarious date Tamar once experienced.
Shul Fundraising & an Orthodox Community Visits a Gay Bar
This week on the podcast we’re talking about synagogue fundraising, and about a Modern Orthodox shul’s visit to a gay bar after the massacre in an Orlando gay bar.
Further reading
Synagogue Fundraising
Running a Successful Shul Dinner in Shul Politics
What the Shekel Teaches: Ten Commandments for Synagogue Fundraising in EJewishPhilanthropy
Congregation Ohev Shalom Visits a Gay Bar
What happened when an Orthodox Jewish congregation went to a gay bar to mourn Orlando by Rabbi Shmuel Herzfeld in the Washington Post
Why So-Called Orthodox LGBT ‘Allies’ Are Doing It All Wrong by Joshua Tranen in the Forward
Endorsements
Zahava recommends going to New Orleans and eating the kosher beignets in Cafe DuMonde, and the general notion of hechshering with tourists in mind, with a shout out to Rabbi Gabe Greenberg, who currently supervises the Cafe DuMonde beignets.
Mimi recommends Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen, Eligible by Curtis Sittenfeld, and the Lizzie Bennet Diaries.
Tamar recommends Bava Metzia 23b, Because Rav Yehuda said that Shmuel said In these three things the Rabbis were accustomed to change their words (i.e. lie) In their tractates, and their beds, and their hospitality. Especially the Tosfot on “and their beds.”
Non Ashkenazi Jews and Kitniyot on Pesach
This week on the podcast we’re talking about non-Ashkenazi Judaism with Sigal Samuel, Opinion editor of the Forward, and about the great Kitniyot debate. This year the Conservative movement released a responsum permitting Ashkenazi Jews to do what non-Ashkenazi Jews have been doing for centuries: eat rice, beans, and other legumes on Passover.
Further reading
Non-Ashkenazi Judaism
Jews of Color Get Personal and Political at First-Ever National Gathering by Sigal Samuel in the Forward
The Invention of the Mizrahim by Ella Shohat
Conversations in Time: Past, Present and Future, an interview with one of the founders of the Ben Porat Yosef school
Ben Porat Yosef 5th graders read megillah in different nusachs.
Kitniyot on Pesach
A Teshuvah Permitting Ashkenazim to Eat Kitniyot on Pesah by Amy Levin and Avram Israel Reisner
Endorsements
Zahava recommends the webseries Soon By You, especially the first episode, The Setup.
Mimi recommends “Diversity” Won’t Challenge Jewry’s Role in White Supremacy by Mark Tsend Putterman in Jewschool.
And the Santa Cruz Haggadah by Karen GR Roekard.
Tamar recommends Hummus! The Movie, Disturbing the Peace, Grain of Truth, and Who’s Gonna Love Me Now?
White Walls by Judy Batalion, and a Mini-Seder
This week on the podcast we’re talking about White Walls: A memoir about motherhood, daughter, and the mess in between by Judy Batalion. And for our second topic we’re doing a mini-seder, sharing some questions and answers about things from the seder.
Further reading
White Walls by Judy Batalion
The Messiness of Hoarding and Motherhood by Judy Bolton-Fasman in the Forward
Out of Faith documentary
Hoarding Disorder from DSM-5 300.3 (F42)
Mini Seder
Dressing as Elijah & Pouring Out Love, Three customs regarding the seder verses “Pour Out Thy Wrath” by Rabbi David Golinkin in MyJewishLearning
Endorsements
Zahava recommends Ricciarelli di Siena (Siena Almond Cookies)
Might or might not be from the NY Times. Makes 24 cookies.
2 egg whites
Dash salt
1.25 c granulated sugar
Freshly grated zest of 1 orange
1 tsp almond extract (Zahava’s Mom’s note: if available for Pesach)
1 tsp vanilla extract or vanilla sugar
10 oz ground blanched almonds
1/4 c matza cake flour
2 tbsp butter or margarine
Confectioner’s sugar
Preheat oven to 350 degrees.
Beat egg whites with salt until stiff and dry. Gradually add 1 c sugar and beat to marshmallow consistency. Add orange zest, almond extract, and vanilla extract. Last, add ground almonds. Mix until it is a rather hard paste.
Mix cake flour with 1/4 c sugar. Generously grease baking sheet with margarine or butter and sprinkle with flour/sugar mixture.
Divide almond paste into 24 equal balls and shape each into a diamond. Place 2″ apart on baking sheet and bake 12-13 minutes. Remove from oven while still white and sprinkle immediately with confectioner’s sugar before letting cool.
Mimi recommends Evicted: Poverty and Profit in the American City by Matthew Desmond which she is reading for the T’ruah book club.
Tamar recommends the BY Times books by Leah Klein. Follow Tamar’s BY Times instagram at #bytimesinourtimes and the 99% Invisible episode The White Elephant of Tel Aviv about the Tel Aviv Central Bus Station. The episode was originally produced by Israel Story.
Bernie Sanders, Donald Trump, and the Jewish Take on the 2016 Election, and the Hereville Books
This month on the podcast we’re talking about Judaism and the presidental election. Bernie Sanders, the first serious Jewish candidate for President of the United States, is seen by some as not Jewish enough, while Donald Trump eschews the usual Republican stances on Israel, and is seen by some as fascistic and anti-Semitic. In our second segment we’re talking about the Hereville books, a series of graphic novels whose protagonist is an ultra-Orthodox girl with super powers.
Further reading
Bernie Sanders, Donald Trump and the Jews
Sanders keeps his Judaism in the background, irking U.S. Jews by Rachel Zoll and Josef Federman on PBS.org
Bernie Sanders Keeps Talking About Being Jewish. Why Won’t We Listen? by JJ Abrams in the Forward
Bernie Sanders Is Jewish, but He Doesn’t Like to Talk About It by Joseph Berger in the New York Times
Muslim Student Asks About Islamophobia from Bernie 2016
White supremacist says he will air interview with Donald Trump Jr. JTA
Where Donald Trump stands on Israel and the Jews by Ben Harris in JTA
After Donald Trump wavers on David Duke, ADL publishes candidates’ guide to racists by JTA
How Republican Jews Utterly Failed To Prevent Rise of ‘Toxic’ Donald Trump by Noam Neusner in the Forward
What Kind of Jew Is Bernie Sanders? by Jay Michaelson in the Daily Beast.
Hereville books
But them on Amazon or indiebound.
Barry Deutsch on Hereville in Graphic Novel Reporter
Barry Deutsch in the Enchanted Inkpot
Reviews of the Hereville books from PJ Our Way
Marley Dias and #1000BlackGirlBooks
Endorsements
Zahava recommends the Netziv in general, and in particular his commentary on monarchy and democracy, found here via Sefaria.
Mimi recommends Bernie Sanders: a linguistic analysis by Joss Fong in Vox
Tamar recommends finding out what kind of end of life care your family members want via Five Wishes, recording family stories with the StoryCorp App, and Jewish chaplains in a stack of end of life related recommendations. Additionally, she recommends nutella rugelach. Use this recipe for the dough.
The Shul/Church Project and Women of the Wall
This month on the podcast we talked about the The Shul/Church Project, an art project by Zoe Cohen. In our second segment, we spoke about the women of the wall. Their new compromise, and what it means for women who pray in Jerusalem.
Further reading
The Shul/Church Project
The Shul/Church Project on Zoe Cohen’s website
Zoe Cohen’s artists’ statement from the show
Talking in Shul’s first episode on prayer spaces
Women of the Wall’s new compromise
The Kotel decision: A Sephardic Jew Responds by Rabbi Daniel Bouskila in the Jewish Journal
The Real Women of the Wall Aren’t Going Anywhere by Vanessa L Ochs in the Forward
Women of the Wall victory can teach us a few things by Batya Kallus in +972
Israeli Government Approves Compromise Between Women of the Wall and Orthodox by Menachem Rephun in the Jerusalem Post
Endorsements
Zahava recommends
Some More Info on Bernie Sanders and Judaism from Chabad.org
The Problem with Jewish Museums by Edward Rothstein in Mosaic Magazine
Mimi recommends
The Girlfriends’ Guide to Divorce, and their depiction of Judaism, particularly in season 2.
Tamar recommends
The University of Pennsylvania Shabbatones, Challah Back
Madoff, the miniseries from ABC and its depiction of Hadassah ladies




